📅 Tuesday, December 2, 2025
🕕 6:00 PM (Check-in at 5:30 PM)
📍 Brass Bear Uptown, 3302 McCaw Ave, Santa Barbara, CA 9310
Family. Togetherness. The people we love gathered around the table.
But life doesn’t always go as planned. And the best gift you can give your family? The confidence that they’ll be taken care of–no matter what happens.
But how do you start the process? What does it actually take to put a plan in place?
Plan to pull up a chair on December 2, 2025 because we’re going to teach you everything you need to know!
Attorney Julianna Malis and the Santa Barbara Estate Planning & Elder Law team are hosting a special Holiday Planning Dinner where we’ll share what matters most over a delicious home-style dinner and festive hot chocolate bar.
We’ll walk you through the essential “meat and potatoes” of estate planning, like the fundamental steps every family needs, and answer your questions so you can move forward with clarity and confidence.
No complicated legal jargon. No pressure. No sales pitch. Just great food, helpful guidance, and the peace of mind that comes from finally understanding what you need to do to protect the people you love.
We’ll break down exactly what a will, trust, power of attorney, and healthcare directive actually DO, and why having one without the others leaves dangerous gaps. You’ll discover which documents apply to your specific situation and what is the right combination for your family.
Learn the strategies that keep your hard-earned assets out of probate (which can take 18+ months and cost tens of thousands of dollars), protect your home from being sold to pay for long-term care, and ensure your children inherit what you intend—not what’s left after legal fees and taxes.
Discover why 70% of estate plans fail to work as intended, and the three critical mistakes that cause families to end up in court fighting over your wishes. We’ll show you how to document your wishes so clearly that there’s no room for confusion, conflict, or family drama.
We’ll give you the exact scripts and conversation starters to discuss these difficult topics with your parents, your spouse, and your adult children, without causing tension, defensiveness, or awkwardness. Plus, learn when NOT to have these conversations and what to do instead.
California laws have changed significantly in recent years around digital assets, blended families, and long-term care planning. Find out if your existing documents are now outdated or incomplete—and what you need to update immediately to stay protected.
We’ll reveal the biggest planning mistakes we see families make—like naming the wrong person as trustee, forgetting to fund your trust, failing to update beneficiaries after divorce or remarriage, and assuming your kids will “figure it out.” Each of these mistakes can cost your family $50,000+ in avoidable expenses.
Your complimentary evening includes:
🍽️ Hearty Home-Style Dinner
Comfort food classics featuring chicken, mashed potatoes, and all the fixings
☕ Festive Hot Chocolate Bar
Complete with seasonal toppings and treats
📚 Legal Guidance in Plain English
Clear, practical estate planning education—no legal jargon
💬 Live Q&A Session
Get your specific questions answered by experienced attorneys
🤝 Comfortable, No-Pressure Environment
Come learn, ask questions, and enjoy great company
Because the holidays are the perfect time to plan.
✨ Families are already gathering – it’s natural to have important conversations
🎁 Give the gift of peace of mind – to yourself and your loved ones
📅 Start the new year with clarity – eliminate the worry and uncertainty
👨👩👧👦 Protect multiple generations – from your parents to your children
💡 Get answers now – before questions become crises
Invitations to our intimate dinner are limited to ensure everyone gets the personal attention and answers they deserve.
As an experienced estate planning attorney who has personally navigated the challenges of family caregiving, Julianna brings both professional expertise and real-world understanding to every conversation. She knows that behind every estate plan is a family with unique needs, concerns, and dreams for the future.
Q: Is this really free?
A: Yes! The dinner, hot chocolate bar, and educational presentation are completely complimentary. We believe every family deserves access to quality estate planning education.
Q: Will I be pressured to hire you?
A: Absolutely not. This is an educational event designed to help you understand your options and make informed decisions. There’s no sales pitch–just valuable information you can use whether you work with us or not.
Q: Can I bring my spouse/partner/family member?
A: Yes! Please let us know how many guests you’ll be bringing so that we can ensure adequate seating and meals for everyone.
Q: What should I bring?
A: Just yourself and any questions you have. We’ll provide all materials, resources, and information you’ll need.
Q: I already have estate planning documents. Should I still attend?
A: Yes! Laws change, life circumstances evolve, and many people discover their existing plans need updates. You’ll learn what’s changed in California law and whether your current documents still serve your family’s needs.
Q: What’s the dress code?
A: Come as you are! This is a relaxed, comfortable evening. Business casual to casual is perfect.
Q: How long will the event last?
A: Plan for about 2-2.5 hours. We’ll have dinner first, followed by the presentation and Q&A session.