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Family Feuds—When Heirs Fight Over Assets With Sentimental Value | SB Elder Law

Posted by Julianna Malis | Aug 23, 2021 | 0 Comments

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When we think about heirs fighting over assets, it is the big ticket items that typically come to mind, such as the family home, investments, bank accounts and the like. However, it is often items of sentimental value—a mother's necklace, for example, or a father's watch—that cause the most contention. This is particularly true in the case of blended families. Worse, battles over sentimental assets often lead to hard feelings that can last for years or even permanently sever relationships between family members. If you fear this happening to your family, give us a call at Santa Barbara Estate Planning and Elder Law using (805) 946-1550.

How can you prevent your heirs from fighting over items with sentimental value? Many people believe that a statement in a will or trust that basically says ‘tangible personal property should be divided as my heirs see fit' will solve the problem. However, this can lead to a host of potential conflicts. A better approach is to put specific items that you believe are of interest to certain family members in writing, and then discussing your decisions in advance with your family. In this way, many emotionally charged disputes can be avoided, especially by calling Santa Barbara Estate Planning and Elder Law at (805) 946-1550 to set up a meeting.

What if you are convinced that a former spouse, one of your children, or the spouse of one of your children will cause trouble no matter you specify in your will? In this case, you might want to consider a no contest clause. In essence, this clause makes the risk of challenging your will outweigh the potential benefit of doing so. A no contest clause generally stipulates that if a beneficiary contests the will's provisions or its validity, his or interest in the will is forfeited. It is important to note, however, that you have to leave the heir in question enough of an inheritance to motivate him or her not to challenge the will. Make sure to mention this in a meeting with our attorneys at Santa Barbara Estate Planning and Elder Law: (805) 946-1550.

About the Author

Julianna Malis

Julianna Malis, Attorney at Law, LL.M (Taxation-Estate Planning) Julianna helps families stop worrying about the ‘what ifs’ in life, and instead prepare for life events through proper estate planning. As the founder of Santa Barbara Estate Planning Law Group, she brings a family-centered approach to planning, with a focus on practical solutions for families and high net worth individuals...

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